PrepFord Wife

Victoria. 24. Philly->NC. Soon to be Mrs. Ford, MSPH. Prep/Urban. God. Black girls. Black Preps. Natural Hair. Harry Potter. J.Crew.

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i told my fellow classmates my first year of law school (I was 22) that I needed to be engaged at age 25.


what the fuck.

i remember exactly which study room we were in. i was SO SINCERE. the way i saw it, i mapped it out:

i had a year or so to meet someone and date him before i turned 24.

hopefully he fell in love with me REALLY fast #nshit so we’d date for like a year, a year and a half.

and he…

 i became selfless in ways i NEVER thought imaginable, and i was shameless in my adoration.”

I think I have penned that second sentence almost verbatim before. I empathize so deeply with this feeling. I adore my fiance shamelessly and to see another woman experience that feeling as well sends shivers up my spine. 

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we’ve taught girls to romanticise nearly everything a boy does. when i was younger i thought it was cute that boys chased the girl even after she said no. i loved it when after a girl moved away from a kiss, the guy would pull her back and force it on. i thought a guy saying ‘i won’t take a no for an answer’ was passionate and romantic. we’re literally always teaching girls to romanticise abusive traits.

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